That's Not What I Meant
What one of you said
I just think you could have handled that better.
What the other one heard
You think I am bad at this.

For Two People

That's Not What I Meant

One sentence. Two completely different conversations.

Both Of You, Or Neither

This Is Not Somewhere You Come To Be Told You Were Right

It is not a place to paste somebody's message and have it explained to you. Nobody here reads what was said and decides what it meant. You both come, you both answer, and what you arrive at belongs to the two of you.

Two people, or it does not begin.

The Quest

Four Steps, And You Take Them Together

  1. 01

    One of you

    What I Said

    The sentence, exactly as it came out. Not the tidied one.

  2. 02

    The other

    What I Heard

    What landed. Not what was meant — what actually arrived.

  3. 03

    Both

    The Gap

    The two of them, side by side, for the first time. This is usually the moment.

  4. 04

    Together

    What I Actually Meant

    Said again, with what you have both just seen.

What It Costs

And We Do Not Want You Here In A Year

Most places are built to keep you. This one is built so that in twelve months you can do it without us — you will know how to say the thing, and how to hear it. That is the whole point of the year.

One Quest

$9.99

For the one conversation you need to get back from.

Every Month

$29 a month

For the year you spend learning how.

A Year

$290 a year

Ten months' price, and the twelfth month is the last one you should need.

Say It Again. This Time It Lands.

Two people. One quest. However long it takes.